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5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue

5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue  Streamer tent - Green Wedding Shoes

There’s something so special about attending a wedding on a warm summer night. You can’t buy the ambiance that the great outdoors already has to offer. The smell, the breeze — ahhhhhh I just love an outdoor wedding. On top of the beautiful natural setting, outdoor venues can also be much cheaper since they don’t involve as much power usage or cleanup time — and you KNOW we like that. Here’s a list of our top 5 tips to make your outdoor wedding a smashing success.

1. CREATE OUTDOOR ROOMS
Setting up boundaries or “visual walls” can make all the difference in turning a simple backyard into an elegant wedding venue. Set up different areas for the ceremony, reception and food/bar table. Use your imagination. Take a look at the trees and shrubs around you — maybe you can use a row of hedges to separate the reception from the ceremony, or maybe you can create a line of division with streamers or vintage bed sheets on a clothesline. The sky is the limit! With well-defined areas, your guests will feel a direct sense of purpose for each area (“AH! This is where we dance!”) and help the overall flow of your wedding.

2. USE REPETITION
The easiest way to make a big impact on a large space is with repetition. And lucky for you (you beautiful little cheapskate), the more you buy the more you save per piece! Some of our favorite decorations to buy in bulk are paper lanterns, streamers, candles, mason jars, tissue paper pom-poms and string lights. Online stores like Save On Crafts or Oriental Trading are great places to start shopping. Tip: If you’re planning a wedding for 2014, wait to buy your clear string lights until after this Christmas when they will go on clearance.

5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue  Paper lantern ceiling | Light wall – Style Me Pretty

3. FIND HEIGHT VARIATION
This is probably the most overlooked aspect of outdoor wedding planning. Indoor wedding venues are decorated from top to bottom. Whether it’s great architectural detail on the ceiling or sconce lighting, indoor venues are usually dressed to the hilt. Because an outdoor venue can often require more man power to set up, higher-up details can be easily forgotten. Just like a painting, beauty is in the entire composition. Choose a venue with varying heights of trees or flowers. Or if your landscape is more bare, string up some rope to hang decorations (a great opportunity to use #2!).

4. DON’T FORGET LIGHTING
Unless you’re having your reception at noon, you’re likely to need extra outdoor lighting during the reception. While daylight does stick around longer in the summer, by the end of the night you and your guests WILL be in complete darkness. And good ol’ Aunt Merna can hardly see in the daytime, let alone outside at 9:00PM. Make sure to hang extra lights from above if you’ve got plenty of tree cover. Or light half a dozen candles per table to help your guests see each other without blocking out the starry night sky. Or why not try a fresh approach with glow sticks or tiki torches? The options are endless.

5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue  Hanging tissue paper pom-poms | Streamer backdrop – Offbeat Bride

5. SAFETY FIRST
Safety is obvious but often-forgotten. It’s most likely that your floor hasn’t been smoothed and carpeted, so rocks and rough terrain are all around. Scope out the area BEFORE all of your decorations are set up. It’s easy to miss a huge exposed root when it’s already been covered by an aisle runner. For rough or gravelled areas make sure that hand rails, chairs or ushers are available to give your elderly guests (or girls in 4″ heels) something to hold onto while they walk.

And most importantly … HAVE A BACK-UP PLAN FOR BAD WEATHER! Be prepared with the name and number for an available tent rental, if necessary. Do whatever you need to make sure your big day goes down without a hitch!

Well, brides — what do YOU think? What are you planning for your outdoor wedding? Do you have any more tips to share with our readers? Let’s get the conversation started in the comment section below!

Tired, Trendy & Timeless:
Passed Hors D’oeuvres

I’m pretty ashamed at how many times I had to look up the word “hors d’oeuvres” to make sure I spelled it correctly. It still looks a bit alien to me. Maybe I’m not fancy enough … or French enough … or rich enough. Either way, in this installment of Tired, Trendy & Timeless we take a look at some of our favorite (and not so favorite) passed hors d’oeuvres, because no one likes hangry (hungry+angry) wedding guests. And don’t forget to scroll down for a Friday roundup of our favorite wedding finds on the web this week!

Tired, Trendy & Timeless: Hors Douevres

Tired: Cucumber sandwiches – been there, ate that
Trendy: Mini fish tacos & Patron ‘ritas, Pancake bites
Timeless: California sliders

Now for some awesome wedding links we found this week:

Recently on MarryThis!:

Have a wonderful weekend!

2012 Year in Review:
Your fave posts last year!

Happy New Year all! Have you decided on a resolution? Mine might involve posting a bit more regularly this year … *cough *cough, sorry guys. I’ve had some pretty exciting news that’s kept me away from the computer a lot — but more on that another time.

I think there’s no better way to start a new year than to reflect on the awesomeness that you already have. And since I think MarryThis is pretty awesome, I’ll do the same. So here, my friends, is a list of our top 10 posts (based on views) from 2012. I can’t wait to see what’s in store for this blog in 2013!

#10 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

"It's What's Inside that Counts" Oreo-stuffed cookie wedding favor w/free printable

10. “IT’S WHAT’S INSIDE THAT COUNTS” OREO-STUFFED COOKIE FAVOR

In case you hadn’t figured it out: This blog is for cheapskate brides, NOT cheap brides. We like to think of our brides as fabulously broke. This favor came in at less than $1 a piece. Now THAT’s a favor we can get behind. Don’t forget to download our free printable “It’s What’s on the Inside that Counts” labels, too.

#9 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

9. FIVE THINGS YOUR BUDGET WEDDING DOESN’T NEED

We know better than anyone that it’s not easy to keep a budget wedding from turning “cheap chic” to “trailer-park trashy.” Use these 5 tips to keep your budget down, without sacrificing class and style. You might be surprised at just how expensive common wedding items actually are.

#8 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

8. BUDGET BRIDESMAID GIFT: DIY AGATE PENDANT NECKLACE

I’ve always swooned for sliced agates. Even before they were popular. And now that they ARE trendy, why not save some moolah and try making your bridesmaid gifts? Not only are these necklaces super easy (no jewelry skills needed) they also only cost $6.26 each to make! Now THAT’s a win win.

#7 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

Freebie Friday! Icebreaker place cards free printable

7. ICEBREAKER PLACE CARDS - FREE PRINTABLE!

A well-balanced and effective seating arrangement is NOT as easy as it sounds. Blending personalities and common interests to help everyone have the best time possible is definitely hard. Our icebreaker place cards will help those guests who might not know everyone at the table. Write each guest’s name on the front (with their table number) and then describe who is sitting to the right and left of them on the back. Sharing a fun fact about each guest will get the conversation flowing (see our example, above).

#6 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

Free printable guest book advice cards

6. GUEST BOOK ADVICE CARDS – FREE PRINTABLE!

It seems like there are a TON of fun guest book options these days. In this 2012 edition of Freebie Friday, we posted a fun set of double-sided guest book advice cards with an included instructional sign! Because really, what couple wouldn’t benefit from a few tidbits of advice from friends and family members who have been there before? The best part is that wedding guests who aren’t married can still contribute their advice with the “we wish you…” cards.

#5 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

DIY "Be my bridesmaid" ombre cupcakes in a jar

5. DIY “BE MY BRIDESMAID” OMBRE CUPCAKES IN A JAR

Asking a best friend or loved one to be your bridesmaid is a very special moment that should be celebrated. I love this little gift because it’s SUPER adorable, affordable AND shows your friends how special they are to you without the added pressure of a large gift or gesture. I almost forgot the best part … our cute inkjet transfer “Will you be my bridesmaid” napkins! Your girlfriends will be so surprised to see their hidden message waiting for them!

#4 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

Best paper flower tutorials

4. ROUNDUP: THE BEST PAPER FLOWER TUTORIALS

While we do LOVE beautiful fresh flowers, if you can’t afford them, you can’t afford them. And in our opinion, no wedding is worth going into debt over (GASP!). Why not consider making your own paper flowers? Read on for a roundup of some of our favorite paper flower tutorials.

#3 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

Free printable wedding planning timeline

3. WEDDING PLANNING TIMELINE – FREE PRINTABLE!

This post was no doubt so popular because it’s just so practical! Many soon-to-be-brides get a sense of “now what?” after they’ve gotten engaged. Download our free wedding planning timeline and you’ll have a month-by-month list of all your wedding to-dos up until the actual wedding day. It really can’t get much easier.

#2 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

DIY "pick your poison" bachelorette party favors

2. DIY “PICK YOUR POISON” BACHELORETTE PARTY FAVORS

Am I surprised that one of our only booze-related posts has made it to the #2 spot for 2012? Not at all. We knew that you readers (*cough* alcoholics) were that awesome. I got this idea while trying to figure out the perfect bachelorette party gift. ‘Cause lets be honest, you’re NEVER going to wear that “one last ride for the bride” T-shirt again. This fun “Pick Your Poison” gift box filled with mini liquor bottles is the perfect gift for any bachelorette and her posse.

#1 – 2012 Best of MarryThis

5 reasons why you should get married when you're fat

1. 5 REASONS WHY YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED WHEN YOU’RE “FAT”

Oh boy was this post a doozey — it came in at #1 for 2012, with more than DOUBLE the views of our #2 post. It probably also tied for our “most hated post” of 2012! These 5 reasons sure did stir up some controversy in our comments section. The whole point of this post was to encourage brides to focus on their HEALTH, not their weight, before the wedding. We (and your fiance) love you for how you look now, and we think you should, too. Whether you agree or disagree, it’s definitely worth the read.

2012 was a great year for MarryThis! Thank you so much to our loyal readers — you can expect even better from us in 2013.

XO, Allison

 

Roundup: Your DIY
Winter Wedding

Hellooooo friends! Who’s been to a winter wedding? I never have and I’m just dying to be invited to one! There’s something so cozy about the idea of marrying your best friend on a chilly night filled with music, dancing, comfort food and your favorite people. To pay tribute to the season, here’s a roundup of some of our favorite winter wedding ideas!

Roundup: Your DIY Winter Wedding

1. Winter barn wedding | 2. Erika Obrien cake design | 3. Winter inspired invitations | 4. Hot chocolate mason jar wedding favors | 5. Hearty soup served in mugs | 6. Cotton bridal bouquet | 7. Rustic tablescape

Roundup: Your DIY Halloween Wedding

I LOOOOOOVE the idea of a Halloween wedding. While this theme can easily be taken a bit too far, I personally think that if you’re going to get married on Halloween, why not go all out? Ok, maybe not as far out as the skeletor couple below, but whatever floats your boat, right? Happy Halloween, friends!

Halloween Wedding Roundup

1. Orange flower arrangement | 2. Marquee Halloween invitations | 3. Toile pumpkin decoration
4. Skeleton wedding couple | 5. Corpse Bride wedding cake | 6. Halloween wedding treat tags
7. Trick-or-treat dessert table

Tired, Trendy & Timeless: Wedding Cakes

Besides the fact that the chances of your wedding guests staying the whole night is much greater when a cake follows dinner — you just HAVE to have a cake. You just HAVE to! It’s not FAIR if you don’t! MOM!!!! She forgot the cake! Ahem, I seem to have regressed here. The point is, people expect cake. And, seeing how EVERYONE likes cake, I suggest you have it. Check out our favorite (and not so favorite) wedding cakes in this installment of Tired, Trendy & Timeless.

Tired, Trendy & Timeless: Wedding Cakes

Tired: White cake with ivy garland
Trendy: Ombre ball cake, Mint cake with white blooms
Timeless: Embroidered lace and appliqued cake

Truly Epic Wedding FAILS
& Friday Link Love

Happy Friday, friends! Because of the fact that Friday has the ability to suck all of the productivity right out of me, I’m not at all surprised that this post is late today. Oops! Better late than never, right?

Anywho, in the spirit of Friday, I thought we could all use a good laugh — I present to you a roundup of the best EPIC wedding fails! And make sure to scroll down for our favorite wedding finds on the web this week!

Wedding fail

Wedding fail

Wedding fail

Wedding fail

Wedding fail

Wedding fail

Now for some awesome wedding links we found this week:

Recently on MarryThis!:

Have a wonderful weekend!

Roundup: Fabulous Fall Wedding Favors

Happy Monday, friends! In the spirit of Fall (and spending hours this weekend raking up leaves) I thought it would be nice to throw together a roundup of fabulous Fall wedding favors. My personal favorite being the tiny bottles of whisky, because I’m a drunk (and most likely your wedding guests will want to be, too).

Fall Wedding Favors

1. Fall Favor Box | 2. Favor Box with Paper Leaves | 3. Mini Liquor Bottles | 4. Fall Favor Tags | 5. Mini Candied Apples | 6. Pouch of Pears | 7. “Fall in Love” Scented Leaf Soaps

Fall Wedding Invitation Roundup & Friday Link Love

Happy Friday! It wasn’t until my heater kicked on this morning that I realized – BOOM! Fall is here! I love this season. I love it hardcore. I love big fluffy blankets and pumpkin cream cheese muffins and the beautiful colors our apple trees are turning. And I love fall weddings. Also hardcore.

To celebrate, here’s a roundup of our favorite Fall wedding invitations! And make sure to scroll down for our favorite wedding finds on the web this week!

Fall Wedding Invitation Roundup Fall Tree | Autumn Leaves

Fall Wedding Invitation Roundup Big SurVintage Rose

Fall Wedding Invitation Roundup Botanical Stamps | Autumn Wreath

Fall Wedding Invitation Roundup Graphic Photo | Mellow Elegance

Fall Wedding Invitation Roundup Harvest Moon | Leafy Trim

Are you swooning? I’m about to go put on a pot of hot apple cider! Which of you brideys are getting married this Fall? What’s your favorite Fall wedding decor? Let’s get the conversation started in the comment section below!

Now for some awesome wedding links we found this week:

This week on MarryThis!:

Have a wonderful weekend!

Roundup: Fabulous DIY Table Numbers & Friday Link Love

Happy friday, friends! It’s the small details that turn a basic wedding into a beautiful one. I spent a ridiculous amount of time scouring over details, so I thought I would try to make it a bit easier for you with one of my favorite small details: table numbers! Here are a few of our favorites (also check out our very own free printable geometric table numbers)!

Fabulous table numbers

1. Spelled out tin can numbers | 2. Painted book numbers | 3. Bride & groom photo numbers | 4. Plastic painted numbers | 5. Wine bottle label numbers | 6. Table number napkins | 7. Vintage mirror numbers

Now for some awesome wedding links we found this week:

This week on MarryThis!:

Have a wonderful weekend!

Wedding Guests You
Should Never Invite

Today I’m taking a break from the usual wedding decor/fashion chat for a small venting session.

There are no steadfast rules as to who you should and shouldn’t invite to your wedding, except this: If you have ANY doubt that the invitee will RSVP “yes” but then flake out and stand you up, don’t invite them. Yes, it’s a bit harsh. No, you will probably not regret it.

Wedding guests you should never invite  {via Oh So Beautiful Paper}

“No shows” plague almost every wedding, and frankly, it’s just downright insulting.
Consider this a PSA: Wedding guests … if you RSVP’d “yes” to a wedding you MUST go.

Unless you’re sick, or your car broke down on the way to the wedding, or you just went into labor. Then you get a pass. Otherwise you’re just being a douche.

Why? Because weddings are expensive. Weddings are SO expensive that we have devoted an entire blog to ideas for how to plan weddings that AREN’T expensive. And you being “not in the mood to go” or “not wanting to drive that far” is literally costing the bride and groom (who are presumably your friends or family members) hundreds of dollars. What a nice wedding gift.

Even though I was married almost two years ago, this topic STILL makes me mad. We had an entire TABLE of people who RSVP’d “yes” but then didn’t show. When all was said and done, our budget wedding cost around $160 per person. Those 5 empty chairs cost us $800. Money of which NO ONE enjoyed.

We could have spent an extra three days on our honeymoon. We could have applied that money toward a downpayment on our first home. The point is … no one likes to waste money – especially if you have none.

So, next time you RSVP to a wedding make sure you actually go. Or if something comes up, just let the bride and groom know! No-shows happen, but it shouldn’t be inevitable.

What about you brides? Do you have any horrible RSVP stories? Did you have any strategies for who you did/didn’t invite? Let’s use this post as a chance to vent.

Happy Wednesday! XO, Allison

Roundup: Your DIY
Peacock Themed Wedding
& Friday Link Love

I had so much fun putting this post together for you today! There have been so many peacock-themed weddings this summer — I absolutely love the whimsy and texture that a smartly placed peacock plume can give to a tablescape or a bridal bouquet. Read on for a roundup of lovely peacock-themed wedding decor! (Also, if you’re looking for a not-so-literal take on a budget bridesmaid outfit, check out Less than $200: Peacock bridesmaids.) Happy Friday, friends!

Peacock themed wedding inspiration board

1. Purple peacock bouquet | 2. Peacock hair flower | 3. Orchid wedding cake | 4. Modern peacock invitations
5. Blue suede pumps with peacock embellishment | 6. Ceremony ball decoration
7. Beach peacock wedding decor

If you’ve seen our DIYs or Free Printables, you know that we are constantly asking to see photos of your finished projects! We received this beauty in our email box and we are so excited to share!

“I wanted to thank you for the wonderful post on a bachelorette party favor. I made them and they
turned out great … The website is great, I absolutely love it and I check it frequently.
My fiancé and I are getting married this November and I know my bridesmaids will love this.
They are doing so much for me that I wanted to have something for them at the bachelorette party
and this is perfect!” – Jessica Schumacher

"Pick Your Poison" Bachelorette Party Favor

Didn’t her DIY Pick Your Poison Bachelorette Party Favors turn out great?! Thanks so much for reading Jessica, and congratulations on your engagement!

And as always, we want to showcase YOUR lovely MarryThis-inspired photos too!
Send your images to allison@marrythis.com

Now for some awesome wedding links we found this week:

This week on MarryThis!:

Have a wonderful weekend!

A Wedding Setting: Confetti Extravaganza! Part Deux

Hello lovelies! Welcome to part two of our three-part Wedding Setting: Confetti Extravaganza! I looooove this movie! Confetti should be a part of every bride-to-be’s movie playlist! We kick off today with Confetti’s musical-themed wedding. While I LOVE this theme, it would definitely take a super-special couple to pull it off. Read on for musical, wedding awesomeness!

Confetti wedding inspiration board

Confetti is a British mockumentary about three couples who won their dream wedding through a magazine contest. In true British form each wedding is horridly themed (there’s a tennis, musical and nudist wedding — you heard right, NUDIST) and hilarity ensues as everything that could possibly go wrong, does.

With hues of pink, black and silver, this singing-dancing wedding is just BURSTING with glamour. This palette would be fabulous for any bride with a flair for Hollywood.

Make sure to check back for part trois (it’s the NUDIST wedding!) of our Wedding Setting: Confetti series!

Confetti wedding inspiration board

1. Twine wedding invitations, $2 each | 2. Crystal drop earrings, $85 | 3. Black and white tent favor boxes, $1 each | 4. Miss Me Vibe heels, $50 | 5. Sue Wong feather beaded gown | 6. Pink peony bouquet | 7. Love to Love You Dress, $170

A Wedding Setting:
Confetti Extravaganza!

Happy Monday lovelies! I have been planning this post for months and I am SOOOOO excited to finally share with you! If you’ve never seen Confetti you need to drop everything and watch it NOW! I had a few movies on rotate while I was in the midst of wedding planning, and I swear to you I watched this movie monthly. I freakin’ love it!

Confetti wedding inspiration board

Confetti is a British mockumentary about three couples who won their dream wedding through a magazine contest. In true British form each wedding is horridly themed (there’s a tennis, musical and nudist wedding — you heard right, NUDIST) and hilarity ensues as everything that could possibly go wrong, does.

Confetti wedding inspiration board

We kick off this special three-part Wedding Setting with Confetti’s tennis-themed wedding. With obvious pops of yellow and green, this wedding is bursting with color and sporty-style. Although this theme might be a bit too literal for an actual wedding, we think this would be an awesome bridal shower theme for the tennis-loving bride. You could even take the girls out for a private tennis lesson … read on for tennis-awesomeness! And make sure to check back for part deux and trois of our Wedding Setting: Confetti series!

Confetti wedding inspiration board

1. Yellow billy ball bouquet | 2. Tennis ball cookie favors, $30 for 12 | 3. So Profresh and So Green Dress, $50 | 4. Joanna August short lace dress, $375 | 5. Shindig wedding invitations, $2 each | 6. Anna and Ava hinge bracelet in green and orange, $20 each | 7. Converse Chuck All Stars in green, $45

Roundup: Your DIY Glittertastic Wedding
& Friday Link Love

Happy Friday! I envy brides that get to throw a totally-femmy-glitter-orgasmic-sparkle-fest wedding. I went ahead and decided to marry a man who actually had an opinion on our wedding, so naturally all things gold, pink and sparkly were vetoed. His loss, OBVIOUSLY. Here’s a roundup of our favorite DIY glittertastic wedding awesomeness!

Glitter wedding roundup

1. Sparkle shoes | 2. Blush fabric sequin backdrop | 3. DIY star tumblers | 4. Bridal bouquet
5. Pink glitter wedding cake | 6. Gold glitter place setting | 7. DIY sequin wall backdrop

If you’ve seen our DIYs or charity favor series, you know that we are constantly asking to see photos of your finished projects! We received this beauty in our email box and we are so excited to share!

Charity favors for dog lovers

Thanks to our new friend Jill Holton! Didn’t her DIY Charity Favors for Dog Lovers just turn out amazing?!
I love the pink icing and sprinkles!

And as always, we want to showcase YOUR lovely MarryThis-inspired photos too!
Send your images to allison@marrythis.com

A few awesome wedding links for your weekend:

This week on MarryThis!:

Have a wonderful weekend!
 
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