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5 Things Your Budget Wedding Doesn’t Need

It’s no secret that weddings are expensive. Actually I think the correct term is “WHAAAAAT??” followed by screaming and your parents taking out a second mortgage. 

Budget weddings require a bit of extra time and smart planning, but it is SOOOO possible to throw a beautiful wedding and still have enough money left over to … um, eat … or whatever. Here’s a list of the top five things your budget wedding doesn’t need.

5 Things Your Budget Wedding Doesn't NeedSparkling Setting / Striped Candleholders

Flowers up the Wazoo

Yes, flowers are gorgeous and really brighten up a room. But paying up to $5 a stem for flowers is just plain ridonkulous. These days there are so many beautiful non-floral centerpieces that there is no reason to spend $6,000 of your wedding budget on decorations that will die within a week.

A Bazillion Bridesmaids

I’m all about having a huge wedding party — but unfortunately, more bridesmaids means more $$$, especially if you plan on buying their dresses or even just covering the cost of hair and makeup on your big day. And for your out-of-town bridesmaids, you’ll have less girls to put up and feed for a few days. Check out our Less Than $200: Bridesmaids series for budget bridesmaid looks!

5 Things Your Budget Wedding Doesn't NeedRainbow Bridesmaids

Too Many People

This is HUGE. If I could get married all over again I would invite half the people and spend an extra week on our honeymoon instead. Once you figure in catering, favors, cake, booze AND rentals, you can EASILY spend $50 per guest (we spent $162 per guest, phew!). That’s MAJOR savings. Sure, making a tight guest list can be a bit difficult, but you’ll be SO glad you did when the wedding is long past and you can actually afford a down payment on a house.

Gourmet Food

I’m torn on this particular item, but it’s still worth noting. If you’re a foodie like me, you will love planning menus with your caterer — until you see the bill. DIZAMN! Adding pears and pecans to the salad costs WHAT?! Be honest with your caterer about your budget. They’ll work with you to find a menu that is tasty AND affordable. If it’s still too expensive, catering your own wedding is sooooo possible with smart planning! Check out our new Cater Your Own Wedding series for cheap and easy to prepare menu ideas!

5 Things Your Budget Wedding Doesn't Need
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An Open Bar (GASP!)

I know this is a hard concept to swallow. ESPECIALLY if certain family members can’t get along without help from tequila shots. Never fear, you can still host a bar on a budget! Talk with your vendor about cheaper options. For our wedding we offered bottomless beer (one micro-brew and one domestic), wine (house red and white), and a champagne toast — but mixed drinks were cash only. OR nix the bar all together and serve one signature cocktail along with flavored ice water and assorted soft drinks.

Following just one or all of these guidelines could save you thousands! What budget-saving tips are you planning to implement in your wedding?

Happy planning!

Signature Cocktail:
Thai Iced Tea

thai iced tea

Nothing is more refreshing than iced tea on a warm day. But sometimes a regular black iced tea just won’t cut it for a fancy wedding day. This is where Thai iced tea comes in. With its mix of spices, milk, sugar and vodka, this is a unique drink to get your party started.

You can easily find pre-mixed powdered Thai tea mix at your local Asian grocery store, but making it with real Thai tea leaves (also found at the Asian grocery store) provides a fresher taste and only takes a tad more effort.

thai iced tea

Cocktail color: Orange. Personally, I don’t think this is the most attractive-looking drink, but the unique taste makes up for it.

Taste: Strong black tea with hints of tamarind, cardamom and other spices topped off with some sweetness.

Best for: Wedding menus that incorporate spicy dishes.

Recipe:  2 ounces vodka, 2 tsp. Thai tea leaves, 2 ounces water, 1 tbsp. simple syrup, 2 ounces evaporated milk. Use these step-by-step directions from the Cooking Channel.

Extra tip: Not a tea drinker? Try this Thai iced coffee recipe.

DIY: Glitter drink trays

If you were paying close attention on Friday, you may have seen the trays that we used with Allison’s Freebie Friday drink flags. I made those! And you can too. In lieu of an illustrated DIY tutorial today, I decided to go a fun new route and put together a video tutorial. Enjoy!

Some notes on the supplies for this project: I found some fun, compact unfinished wooden trays on Amazon.com, and the acrylic paint I used is Martha Stewart paint, available at Michaels.

DIY Glitter Tray Tutorial

Don’t want to make your own? Then win one of these two on our Facebook page!

Freebie Friday! Drink Flags

Free printable drink flags

Happy freebie Friday, friends! Today we have a cute printable to help dress up your booze. Not that alcohol generally needs any accessorizing, but we think these cute “Cheers!” drink flags will help add a little flair.

The best part is that these printables are super versatile and would be great for many different wedding details. Attach them to rock candy to add to champagne. Wrap them around a toothpick and stick on top of a cupcake! The possibilities are endless.

These flags are double-sided and come in two cute color combos to help match your palette: pink/yellow and silver/white. We recommend printing these labels on plain white paper or full-size label paper. Just print, cut and wrap, baby!

Free printable drink flags

Make sure to check back next week for a video tutorial on how to make this awesome pink, glitter-tastic serving tray (we’ll also have a version in white)!

Free printable drink flags

If you used our free printables in an awesome project, we would love to see your work! Send your photos to sara@marrythis.com for a chance to be featured on our blog!

Freebie Friday!
DIY Pick Your Poison Bachelorette Party Favors

DIY Pick Your Poison Bachelorette Party Favor Printable

Today’s post is especially fun for me because I get to talk about booze. Not classy adult “Would you prefer an aperitif?” booze, I mean BOOZE booze. Like “Sneak it into the club between your cleavage because you don’t want to pay full price” booze.

I got this idea while trying to figure out the perfect bachelorette party gift. ‘Cause lets be honest, you’re NEVER going to wear that “one last ride for the bride” T-shirt again. This fun Pick Your Poison gift box filled with mini liquor bottles is the perfect gift for any bachelorette and her posse.

While these boxes aren’t the cheapest to make (about $12 a box), we’re betting your girls will save a LOT of money by dipping into their gift instead of spending inflated drink prices at the bar. And even better, if you are treating the girls for the whole night, it will save YOU some extra money to spend on the
honeymoon later.

DIY Pick Your Poison Bachelorette Party Favor Printable

What You Need:

  • Decorative excelsior, found in the floral isle
    (shredded paper or any other packing material would work, too)
  • 7″ cardboard decoupage box
  • Black ribbon
  • Assorted mini-liquor bottles (a 7″ box holds 5)
  • Full-sheet label paper

1. Fill your box halfway full with excelsior. I recommend doing this outside because it gets EVERYWHERE.

2. Arrange your liquor bottles to fit. I tried to fill each box with a diverse selection of liquor.

3. Download our “Pick Your Poison” label here. Print label on full-sheel label paper, cut out, and stick to your box, folding the edges under the lid.

4. Finish with a beautiful black bow!

Variations:

  • I used natural excelsior in this box, but it comes in many different colors! Switch it up with a bright bold shade and coordinating ribbon to match your wedding colors.
  • Stretch your dollars a little further and use a smaller decoupage box. My local craft store had them available in 7″, 5″ and 3″. I recommend bringing the box with you to the liquor store so you can see how many bottles it will hold to avoid overspending on liquor. Our printables can be easily cut down to fit a smaller box size.
  • Color coordinate your booze! Wouldn’t it be fun to see an ombre liquor effect when you opened the box? The downside to this variation is that you would most likely end up with just puckers or liqueurs. Throw in some clear bottles to mix it up.

Hope you love this little gift as much as we do! We would love to see your finished Pick Your Poison gift boxes! Send your photos to sara@marrythis.com for a chance to be featured on our blog!

DIY Pick Your Poison Bachelorette Party Favor Printable

Signature Cocktail:
Grapefruit blush

Signature cocktail recipe

Grapefruit is one of those fruits that everybody knows but not everybody really loves. It’s the fruit that your mom would eat as a diet food in the 80s and the juice you would drink if there was no orange juice in the house.

Even though grapefruit may get a bad rap, it shouldn’t be overlooked at a cocktail base. This grapefruit cocktail uses the fruit’s tartness to complement the drink’s sugar rim and simple syrup. It will definitely please those guests who can never decide between Sour Patch Kids and Skittles.

Signature cocktail recipe

Cocktail color: It’s pretty much pink. But it’s the classy pink lemonade color, not the outrageously fake cotton candy pink, sort of like Jem’s hair. Did anyone watch Jem when they were a kid? She was the best.

Taste: Citrusy and sour but the sugar rim and simple syrup cut the grapefruit’s natural tartness.

Best for: Since citrus is more prominent in the winter months, I can see this featured in a winter wedding. But it easily would be a hit at a brunch wedding as an alternative to the screwdriver.

Recipe: 4 ounces of pink grapefruit juice, 2 ounces vodka, 1 1/2 teaspoons of simple syrup, juice of 1/4 lemon (we used a Meyer lemon because we love its juiciness), slices of lemon for garnish

Extra tip: Try this with a salt rim to create more of a salty-sweet taste.

Signature cocktail:
Pimm’s Cup

Signature Cocktail Recipe: Pimm's Cup

Pimm’s Cup is the fruit salad of cocktails. That may sound a little bizarre. But it truly is – this cocktail is such an easygoing drink that you can add whatever fruit you want and it will still taste delicious.

Basically, Pimm’s Cup is a mix of Pimm’s No. 1 and chilled fizzy liquids, such as lemonade or ginger ale. Pimm’s No. 1 is a liqueur tasting vaguely of citrus fruit and spices – sort of like Christmas in your mouth. Next, you add whatever fresh fruit is in season, such as oranges, lemons and apples. Top it off with cucumber and fresh herbs and you’ve got yourself a cocktail meal.

Pimm’s Cup is a traditional British cocktail, served mostly in the summer, so if you are an Anglophile or are inspired to have a Bright British Pop Wedding like in our Guide 03, then this is your signature cocktail.

Signature Cocktail Recipe: Pimm's Cup

Cocktail color: Flexible. You can change the cocktail color based on the ingredients you choose. Depending on your wedding’s color palette, keep the liqueur’s gorgeous caramel color by topping it off with seltzer water or create a pretty crimson cocktail by adding pomegranate juice.

Taste: It goes down easy as it is refreshing, fruity and slightly sweet.

Best for: Classic summer weddings where it’s so hot that your guests want to take off their fancy clothes and jump into the nearest pool.

Recipe: Mix one part Pimm’s No. 1 with three parts chilled fizzy lemonade (or ginger ale or seltzer). Add chopped fresh fruit (cucumber, oranges, strawberries, lemons, etc.). Garnish with cucumber, mint and other herbs.

Extra tip: Take advantage of seasonal produce, which saves you money. Berries, peaches and nectarines would equally work well for this cocktail.

Secrets of the
signature cocktail

By serving one signature cocktail at your wedding, you add another personalized twist to your event. Plus, you can save money, especially if you host a limited open bar (i.e. free beer and wine).

Wedding signature cocktails

Consider this when you are shopping around for that one special cocktail:

Stick to basic ingredients. If your bartender must use three kinds of liquor, simple syrup and a garnish, the drink may be impressive but expensive. Try to find cocktails that use less than five ingredients.

Consider your colors. If you are the matchy-match type of bride, think about what liquids are a lighter version of your color palette. For instance, if you love the color green, think of fruit or food that is similar in color, such as a mojito or a green apple martini.

Stay neutral with taste. Your girlfriends may love that you serve Cosmopolitans, but remember that half of your wedding guests are men, too. Choose a cocktail that doesn’t have the bite of a Manhattan but isn’t overly sweet like a piña colada.

Sample, sample, sample. You don’t have to be a total lush to complete this step, but when you are out at a bar or restaurant, try something new rather than your usual martini. There are so many cocktails out there (Salty dog, anyone? Or a brandy daisy?), so take the time to find one that fits your taste and style.

Serve mocktails. Make sure your drinks can be served without alcohol so non-drinkers (and children) are able to partake in the festivities. If your signature cocktail is super simple, such as a gin and tonic, then consider creating a special non-alcoholic drink as well.

Wedding signature cocktails

 
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