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5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue

5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue Streamer tent - Green Wedding Shoes

There’s something so special about attending a wedding on a warm summer night. You can’t buy the ambiance that the great outdoors already has to offer. The smell, the breeze — ahhhhhh I just love an outdoor wedding. On top of the beautiful natural setting, outdoor venues can also be much cheaper since they don’t involve as much power usage or cleanup time — and you KNOW we like that. Here’s a list of our top 5 tips to make your outdoor wedding a smashing success.

1. CREATE OUTDOOR ROOMS
Setting up boundaries or “visual walls” can make all the difference in turning a simple backyard into an elegant wedding venue. Set up different areas for the ceremony, reception and food/bar table. Use your imagination. Take a look at the trees and shrubs around you — maybe you can use a row of hedges to separate the reception from the ceremony, or maybe you can create a line of division with streamers or vintage bed sheets on a clothesline. The sky is the limit! With well-defined areas, your guests will feel a direct sense of purpose for each area (“AH! This is where we dance!”) and help the overall flow of your wedding.

2. USE REPETITION
The easiest way to make a big impact on a large space is with repetition. And lucky for you (you beautiful little cheapskate), the more you buy the more you save per piece! Some of our favorite decorations to buy in bulk are paper lanterns, streamers, candles, mason jars, tissue paper pom-poms and string lights. Online stores like Save On Crafts or Oriental Trading are great places to start shopping. Tip: If you’re planning a wedding for 2014, wait to buy your clear string lights until after this Christmas when they will go on clearance.

5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue Paper lantern ceiling | Light wall – Style Me Pretty

3. FIND HEIGHT VARIATION
This is probably the most overlooked aspect of outdoor wedding planning. Indoor wedding venues are decorated from top to bottom. Whether it’s great architectural detail on the ceiling or sconce lighting, indoor venues are usually dressed to the hilt. Because an outdoor venue can often require more man power to set up, higher-up details can be easily forgotten. Just like a painting, beauty is in the entire composition. Choose a venue with varying heights of trees or flowers. Or if your landscape is more bare, string up some rope to hang decorations (a great opportunity to use #2!).

4. DON’T FORGET LIGHTING
Unless you’re having your reception at noon, you’re likely to need extra outdoor lighting during the reception. While daylight does stick around longer in the summer, by the end of the night you and your guests WILL be in complete darkness. And good ol’ Aunt Merna can hardly see in the daytime, let alone outside at 9:00PM. Make sure to hang extra lights from above if you’ve got plenty of tree cover. Or light half a dozen candles per table to help your guests see each other without blocking out the starry night sky. Or why not try a fresh approach with glow sticks or tiki torches? The options are endless.

5 Tips to Create a Beautiful & Budget-friendly Outdoor Wedding Venue Hanging tissue paper pom-poms | Streamer backdrop – Offbeat Bride

5. SAFETY FIRST
Safety is obvious but often-forgotten. It’s most likely that your floor hasn’t been smoothed and carpeted, so rocks and rough terrain are all around. Scope out the area BEFORE all of your decorations are set up. It’s easy to miss a huge exposed root when it’s already been covered by an aisle runner. For rough or gravelled areas make sure that hand rails, chairs or ushers are available to give your elderly guests (or girls in 4″ heels) something to hold onto while they walk.

And most importantly … HAVE A BACK-UP PLAN FOR BAD WEATHER! Be prepared with the name and number for an available tent rental, if necessary. Do whatever you need to make sure your big day goes down without a hitch!

Well, brides — what do YOU think? What are you planning for your outdoor wedding? Do you have any more tips to share with our readers? Let’s get the conversation started in the comment section below!

Wedding Guests You
Should Never Invite

Today I’m taking a break from the usual wedding decor/fashion chat for a small venting session.

There are no steadfast rules as to who you should and shouldn’t invite to your wedding, except this: If you have ANY doubt that the invitee will RSVP “yes” but then flake out and stand you up, don’t invite them. Yes, it’s a bit harsh. No, you will probably not regret it.

Wedding guests you should never invite {via Oh So Beautiful Paper}

“No shows” plague almost every wedding, and frankly, it’s just downright insulting.
Consider this a PSA: Wedding guests … if you RSVP’d “yes” to a wedding you MUST go.

Unless you’re sick, or your car broke down on the way to the wedding, or you just went into labor. Then you get a pass. Otherwise you’re just being a douche.

Why? Because weddings are expensive. Weddings are SO expensive that we have devoted an entire blog to ideas for how to plan weddings that AREN’T expensive. And you being “not in the mood to go” or “not wanting to drive that far” is literally costing the bride and groom (who are presumably your friends or family members) hundreds of dollars. What a nice wedding gift.

Even though I was married almost two years ago, this topic STILL makes me mad. We had an entire TABLE of people who RSVP’d “yes” but then didn’t show. When all was said and done, our budget wedding cost around $160 per person. Those 5 empty chairs cost us $800. Money of which NO ONE enjoyed.

We could have spent an extra three days on our honeymoon. We could have applied that money toward a downpayment on our first home. The point is … no one likes to waste money – especially if you have none.

So, next time you RSVP to a wedding make sure you actually go. Or if something comes up, just let the bride and groom know! No-shows happen, but it shouldn’t be inevitable.

What about you brides? Do you have any horrible RSVP stories? Did you have any strategies for who you did/didn’t invite? Let’s use this post as a chance to vent.

Happy Wednesday! XO, Allison

Go Go Gadget Interweb!:
Top 3 Sites to Help you Plan your Dream Wedding

These days wedding planning doesn’t have to be so hard. Can you imagine actually having to break out the PHONE BOOK to plan your wedding? And you have no idea how crappy each business is until you visit each one in person? Now THAT must have been rough. Nowadays you can tell how legit a business is just from their website (Hint: If they use Comic Sans, RUN!)

With new wedding websites popping up everyday and apps up the wazoo, here are our top three websites to save you time and money while wedding planning.

Top 3 sites to help you plan your dream wedding

COLOURlovers

Color geeks beware, you will spend HOURS on this site. COLOURlovers is an online community for colorphiles. Browse hundreds of thousands of color palettes using search terms like “wedding,” “afternoon,” “bride,” or “cheerful.” This site is perfect for helping brides decide on a wedding color scheme, flower combinations or bridesmaid dresses. Print out your favorite schemes and take them with you when you’re out shopping! Check out our own COLOURlovers profile for a few original MarryThis color schemes! (Click here to see the rich purple palette featured in our photo.)

Top 3 sites to help plan your dream wedding

Pinterest

It goes without saying that Pinterest is probably the best tool EVER invented for wedding planning. It’s pathetic how much time I spend on Pinterest … seriously. In case you’re new to the scene, Pinterest is an image sharing site that allows you to save and organize all the beautiful things you find on the web. Arrange your pins into separate inspiration boards like “bridesmaid dresses,” “cakes,” or “centerpieces.” Pinterest is the absolute BEST way to mix and match wedding images from your favorite blogs. Visit the MarryThis Pinterest profile for all the latest and greatest in weddings!

Top 3 sites to help you plan your dream wedding

Urban Barn

The Urban Barn Room Planner is a relatively new craze. It’s an interactive room planner that allows you to arrange and place furniture within a space. Enter custom dimensions of your floor plan and arrange your heart out (plus, it’s to scale)! While this tool is primarily used for interior design, it is also the BEST way to arrange the layout of your ceremony or reception venue! After you’ve found the perfect floor plan, print it out to give to your day of coordinator for seating assignments. Win win!

What are your favorite wedding planning websites?

Happy Planning!

 
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